I would recommend this book to anyone with Children that are sometimes, or a lot of the time, "Explosive", to where the Parent finds it disruptive and disturbing to deal with. I would also recommend this book to other Parents, such as ourselves, that may be dealing with a Child suffering from Mental Illness, which can often have difficulty with "Explosive", or even violent behavior at times. This book was recommended to us by our Psychologist, and fit the bill for some of the problems we were having difficulty handling. This was for a Four Year Old, and is helpful. I think the book would be useful for any age person. What I liked was there were many example senerios, everything easy reading, and many interesting and atypical ways each problem was handled was quite helpful. Most of these issues we are talking about, are not just a spoiled or undisciplined Child, and we are in a world that you find many more old School values, that wants to "get some discipline into that Kid", are completely ignorant, and ineffective. This book addresses the complete Psychological understanding of why these behaviors exist, and how to handle them in a better way. Understanding will make it easier for the Parents, or, Caregivers, to handle, and be less stressful for everyone. I noted "easy to read", and some may think this is a non-issue, but if your in the throws of very difficult behavior, or if you have a High-Maintenance Child, due to Mental Illness, or other problems, time is usually not on your side, so it can be a major issue for you, as it was for us. I remember being so completely overwhelmed at the first Psycologists Appointment, that I cringed at the paperwork, and at her recommendation we read this book. However glad we did. At the time, we had been dealing with about two months of extreme negative side effects causued by the Psychiatrists three trials of Zoloft, Celexia, then, Tex-X, on Our Daughter. We were then spun into a such out-of-control cycle, we had gotten to the point, we thought there was a possibility we'd need to Hospitalize this poor Little Four Year Old, as we were worried for Her. But things calmed, and understanding some of the ways to handle some of the more difficult behaviors, really can help.Read full review
I was introduced to this book when I was participating in a monthly support group for parents with emotionally troubled children that was organized and run by my local mental health agency. It provided me with real insights into the traps that we set for ourselves when the conventional responses we make to the overpowering emotional behaviors of our struggling children backfire and inflame rather than calm them down. It helps us to understand patterns that are not easily controlled and gives practical ideas about how to approach them. I've been recommending it to friends and acquaintances in similar situations and have gotten it for our town library. I also think that it is a very good book to use in group situations, and to the women who said that such groups are not offered for children, I recommend that she enlist counselors from her area mental health agency to start up such a group herself with their aid. It is invaluable to have other parents with whom to share experiences and ideas.Read full review
I found this book years ago when my daughter was out of control. I had pediatricians tell me, oh, she's just high maintenance and your exhausted with her and the baby. I knew it was more to that. Before we finally got her diagnosis of bipolar and Asperger's, the information in this book helped bring some stability into our family. It is excellent information in dealing with people who have difficult challenges. It saves you from the no win power struggles, and allows the child to be treated with dignity. My daughter is a successful teen now, and we at times still use the techniques in this book.
Great book! We've got an 11-year-old boy going on 4 and 14. Although he is not as extreme as some of the examples, this book provided me with some helpful hints to dealing with our son. He has always been a sensitive guy, given to tantrums and great angst, and his fury is let loose on us too often. I'm willing to see my part in this, too. But I can't help feeling that this is just his nature from the start. This book helps me to recognize some of his behaviors, suggests ways of compromising to help him learn to deal with things better, and helps me to know I'm not the only one out there with this situation. Some kids truly are more explosive than others!
MY 8 YEAR OLD ADHD/BIPOLOR WHO IS VERY EXPLOSIVE WITH ANGER AND WILL HURT ME HIS MOTHER WHO IS A SINGLE MOTHER,HIS FATHER I MIGHT AD WHO IS OUT OF HIS LIFE (THANK GOD)HAS THE SAME DISORDER AS MY SON,ALOT OF HIS FATHER IS COMING OUT OF MY SON WHO WITNESSED HIS FATHER HARM ME AND THAT IS WHEN MY SONS ILLNESS CAME OUT. THIS BOOK HAS EXPLAINED ALOT I DIDNT KNOW.I recommend anyone who has a explosive child to get this book since there is no support groups for parents with children with bipolor/explosive behavior ,only for adults with the disorder.It is my therepy to read and understand.
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